I spent a refreshing dinner last evening with a founder of a hot startup that can change the way the Web 2.0 era operates. As we cooked our Korean BBQ and savored the smells, we talked about how his tech team was doing amazing things, inventing and spurring each other to reach for the next level. This company is to be watched closely. (BTW: they are looking for a world-class VP of Marketing: email me if you know someone who would be interested).
I had seen AC recently emerge from a board meeting, entering the work area of the fledging company. He shouted out a special greeting to the tech team and they all grinned. Clearly they were in sync, soul and spirit. The VP Engineering is also outstanding, as is the CEO and others hired. It is a first-class group to be admired and envied.
That is what encouragement is all about. I told AC that I saw him as a "constructive encourager". Leaders like that are very special and very rare. They are the stimulus to greatness in people.
Contrast that with KS who is quitting his company after half a decade of devoted, very hard work. His CEO has the soul of tarmac, shouting with anger to get people to do the hard things. The boss is never satisfied, with himself or others. KS has learned a bitter lesson. He saw working for the CEO as a challenge. I doubt the CEO will ever change, unless God gets hold of his soul. I see KS as able to recover, however he has wasted a lot of half a decade learning the hard way.
But think about working with AC. What a breath of fresh air, by comparison!
That is your opportunity: to be an encouraging, constructive leader, someone who attracts the best people to join you in the hard work ahead of you. You are competing for scarce talent. You need to attract the best to your company, and not loose them to your competitors or to Google's global recruiting vacuum cleaner.
BOTTOM LINE: Examine how you are leading: how more encouraging and constructive can you be? If you don't know, ask your best friend. Or your mentor (If you don't have one, get one!). Better yet, ask your girlfriend or boyfriend. They can be brutally frank (and thereby lovingly helpful). When you get this part of leading right, it adds a priceless element to your unfair advantage! Ask any serial entrepreneur, they will agree.